Dear Tim Stanley: Stop Calling Capitulation “Tough Love”

An open letter from the continent you keep diagnosing as “neurotic” to the columnist doing unpaid comms for Trump’s security strategy and calling it tough love.

Dec 17, 2025

Dear Tim,

This is an opinion piece responding to your Telegraph column of 15 December 2025, “Declining and neurotic Europe needs to be saved from itself”.

Your column about “declining and neurotic Europe” reads less like analysis and more like the kind of freelance press work you might expect for a Trump-era security strategy. You stand in the middle of an openly hostile document and tell your readers it is tough love. You wave away Russian aggression, US interference and a decade of policy failure and tell them the real problem is migrants, green laws and kids who know what toxic masculinity is.

That is not Europe on the therapist’s couch. That is your paper acting as cover for a project that treats this continent as a wayward teenager in need of discipline.

You begin with Mark Rutte warning that “we are Russia’s next target”. In grown up foreign policy land that means, if Ukraine falls, the next countries under pressure are the Baltics and Poland. It means hybrid attacks, border probes, nuclear blackmail. You rewrite it as a cartoon of tanks rolling up the Champs Élysées and airborne troops dropping into Blackpool, then call that fantasy “bizarre” and “neurotic”. Nobody in NATO is planning for Cossacks in the Tower Ballroom, Tim. They are planning for the next slice of the map.

By reducing a serious deterrence argument to a parody of “Putin in Paris”, you make preparation look hysterical and passivity look sane. That is not clever contrarianism. It is just appeasement in a fun hat.

Then comes the National Security Strategy. In your telling it announces that Europe is “strategically and culturally vital”, and readers are supposed to breathe a sigh of relief. You gloss over how the same strategy treats European regulation, welfare and migration as pathologies and appears to prescribe “support for local nationalists” as the cure. You present a foreign government’s stated intention to reshape European politics as an act of friendship.

If Beijing published a document complaining about Europe’s rules and promising to boost its favourite parties inside our democracies, you would not call that love. You would call it interference. But when Washington does it under Trump, you effectively rebrand it as salvation. At the exact moment this continent needs a serious conversation about strategic autonomy, you tell your audience to welcome being turned into someone else’s culture war battleground.

You turn the screws on culture, because that is where the real work is being done. In a few paragraphs you throw out “Islamists swing elections”, “Christians are arrested for praying”, migrants “changing their societies from within”, a Eurovision winner who uses “they” pronouns and gives back a trophy. There is no data, no context, no attempt to distinguish between narrow legal disputes and the dystopia you want your readers to see. The effect is the same, whether you intend it or not. In your framing, Muslims become a political fifth column, migrants an infection, non-binary people a punchline attached to NATO.

That is not a description of Europe as it is. It is something that functions like a guided fantasy tour, designed to make your audience feel that every piece of modern life they dislike is part of one terrible pattern.

The hard facts you do admit bleed straight through your story. You acknowledge that European states have spent “substantially more than the US” on Ukraine. You note that right wing populist parties are already in government or kingmaking from Sweden to Italy, that Labour is cranking up deportations and playing with human rights, that Finland never abolished conscription and Germany is expanding military service. If you believed your own numbers, your headline would be “Europe is finally doing what Farage and Trump demanded and it still is not enough for me”.

Instead you retreat into the vagaries of “spiritual crisis”. You cannot maintain a picture of a continent that is both a pacifist daycare and a nationalist fortress, so you redefine the problem. The issue is no longer what Europe does, it is who Europeans are. Neurotic. Hollow. Lacking “an animating spirit”. That is a move from politics to pathology, and it lets you keep shouting “decline” even while things move in your direction.

When you get to young people you stop even attempting to ground it in evidence. “Half our youngsters are signed off with anxiety,” you write, and “you can’t educate kids this badly, with extra lessons on toxic masculinity, and expect them to grow up into compliant patriots.” The real picture we have from public data is grim enough, Tim. Mental distress is rising because of housing, insecurity, debt, pressure, years of cuts and the small matter of trying to build a life on a melting planet. You glance at that, call it a “spiritual crisis”, then decide the decisive factor is PSHE lessons.

This is where the column stops being eccentric and starts being obscene. An entire generation lives with worse prospects than their parents, pays more for less, and gets hammered by every shock. Their reward from your corner of the press is to be told that their problem is a lack of enthusiasm for dying on demand.

Here is the meltdown moment, so there is no confusion about the stakes. You and your paper have consistently backed a politics that gutted services, inflated asset prices, turned housing into a casino and shredded social security. Now, when the bill arrives as burned out kids and brittle institutions, you stand in the wreckage and announce their real failing is not loving the flag enough. That is not patriotism. It is emotional blackmail sprayed across a continent.

Psychology matters here, but not in the cute way of “Europe on the couch”. Look at what your column does to attribution. Every structural failure is relocated into the heads and bodies of convenient targets. Economic policy and corporate greed become “welfare dependency”. The design of rights frameworks becomes “Christians arrested for praying”. A US grand strategy becomes a neutral warning from a wise ally. Russia’s aggression becomes an excuse to rant about pronouns. You encourage your readers to locate blame in migrants, Muslims, bureaucrats, anxious youth, anyone but the people who actually chose the laws and signed the orders.

You do not need access to your unconscious motives to see that. It is all there on the page in black and white.

The theatrical flourish at the end is classic Telegraph. Charlemagne, Bach, Suleiman. An “animating spirit” that supposedly once united Europe, now replaced by grey men at summits and non-binary Eurovision winners. It is the oldest trick in the reactionary book: invent a coherent golden age so the real, messy present can be condemned as pure decay. In your version, the thing killing Europe is not imperial war, not US ambivalence, not the gamble on cheap Russian gas, not a broken economic model. It is the existence of people and rights you personally find unsettling.

So here is your surreal escalation, because your own rhetoric has already kicked the door open. Imagine we take your column and act on it literally. Trump’s Washington reads its own strategy, decides Europe is feeble, and backs nationalist parties it likes. Those parties come to power on a promise to harden borders, strip back rights, deregulate in the name of “muscle”. Brussels is reduced to a security secretariat. NATO becomes a one-way obligation. Human rights frameworks are shredded as “neurotic”. Eurovision is banned, I suppose, or forced to sing in Gregorian. We end up with a Europe that looks like the answer key in your head. And then the next Trump, or the next Putin, picks up the phone and explains what that newly obedient Europe is going to do next.

That is not saving Europe from itself. That is disarming Europe’s capacity to say no.

If your column were only melodrama about civilisation it would be annoying and forgettable. It is more dangerous than that because it prepares people to accept concrete changes. Less protection from Strasbourg. Less scrutiny of what the US wants from us. More indulgence for governments that scapegoat minorities and criminalise dissent. A continent more willing to believe that its real enemies are internal and cultural, not the men literally moving troops and drawing lines on maps.

You did not just describe Europe, Tim. You have helped redraw it, on someone else’s terms.

In case the punchline was not clear enough: telling your readers that the way to face an unstable America and an aggressive Russia is to become more like them is not courage, it is capitulation with better tailoring.

And for a man who claims to be worried about Europe’s spine, you have written a column that spends an awful lot of energy teaching it how to bend.

Willy & Bill

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